The women who survived #Kony’s war

It is International Women’s Day today and as usual I am in a reflective mood, precisely that what does this all mean for women in Africa. In my first post on IWD over at Africa on the Blog I ask  the question

What can we do to ensure that the world of the African woman who has no property rights, access to education, independent income etc, converges with the rest of the world?

Whilst I was still pondering this an almighty row broke out in cyber space regarding an American based NGO called Invisible Children (IC). The NGO posted a video in which they tell the story of the war of Northern Uganda, specifically the abduction of children who were then forced to serve as child soldiers in Lord’s Resistance Army (LRA). You can watch the video here

The video went viral so much has  been said elsewhere, so it is not my intention to rehash what has been said already.  The video has caused so much anguish,  shock and disgust from many quarters for one reason or another. The war in Northern Uganda went on for 26 years and injured women and children both physically and emotionally  and for this I have questioned the motivation of IC to issue a video that deals with a terrible time in Uganda’s history.

 

I have seen the pain of those that suffered at the hands of Kony and his Lords Resistance Army and I am privileged to work with some of those women who survived that war. We call them the Women Of Kireka and you can hear one of my conversations with them in this video

These are proud women who have against the odds worked to put  the past behind them and forge a new life for themselves in Kireka a suburb or Kampala the capital of Uganda. This is not to say that they have forgotten what they went through, how can they? Some lost entire clans, husbands, children and neighbours etc

Although I have been through a war when our village was under siege for 4 months in the war that brought in Museveni, I can’t begin to imagine what these women went through or how it is that they are not outwardly angry at the whole world for allowing this to happen to them and I will never know what that was like for them.

That an International NGO that should know better has chosen to make people like the Women of Kireka relieve this pain has left me and most Ugandan’s seething with anger. In doing this IC is preventing us from moving on and appears keen on holding Northern Uganda back even though the people of Northern Uganda are working hard to rebuild their lives. I ask again WHAT IS IC’S MOTIVATION?

I also have to ask what we as Ugandans/ Africans going to do about this?

I strongly believe that IC and such like must be stopped from misrepresenting our continent in this way.

I am keen to hear your thoughts on this matter

As suggested by Joanne you can help these women by making a donation. The money will be put towards sewing machines which is something the women are desperate to acquire so that they can expand their business. If you do make donation please use WOK as your reference so we can allocate the money appropriately

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African women’s reproductive health

January and February were emotionally hard months. I left Uganda and headed back to UK.

The day I arrived I got a phone call from home telling me that my cousin Doreen was seriously ill in a Ugandan hospital and the prognosis was not good and the next call I got was to tell me that Doreen was dead.

Doreen

Doreen (R.I.P) had miscarried her baby and having been discharged from hospital she became very ill and had to return for a check up. She had an infection that had not been picked up and by the time they did it was too late. There was very little they could do  for her.

A few weeks later just as I was getting used to that news  I got a call from a friend here in the UK, she had had her baby prematurely  by C section as the Doctors had realized that if she carried the baby full term it would be  detrimental to her health, her baby was OK.  The baby a girl suffered some complications and died 12 days later.

2 weeks into February and I get a phone call from my sister in London,  my niece had been taken into hospital. She was about to miscarry her babies and 48 hours later she did. she was expecting twins. The last one had to be taken out because not doing so would compromise her health as she had lost a lot of blood and perhaps cause complications for her in future.

As you can see these were difficult months to get through and you are probably wondering WHY I am sharing these rather personal experiences with you-

It is all about the disparity in services  when it comes  to  AFRICAN WOMEN’S REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH

All of the women mentioned here are Ugandan two live in the UK but Doreen lived in Uganda.  I have since asked myself the question what would have happened if the other two women lived in Uganda too?

On Tuesday 8 March 2011 we celebrated 100 years of International Women’s Day I used the  opportunity to both celebrate the lives of women that are behind lovely products here at Ethnic Supplies but also to reflect on the how things have  changed for women in Uganda/Africa and I concluded that there is still a lot of work to do and I think that the personal story I started this post with demonstrates that in as far getting reproductive health for African women right is concerned.

Goal Number 5 of the  the Millennium Development Goals is all about Reproductive health/maternal health. As I look back on the past two months I have to wonder how many more Doreens will lose their lives before things improve for women in Africa so that they can have access to the care and expertise that the other other two women living in the UK had.  Yes I understand that it took Britain 100 years or so to get Maternal health right for women here but the disparity in care for women in Africa lives me with a sense of hopelessness.

With nurses and mid-wives leaving the continent for a better life/working conditions elsewhere what hope is there for real development of services to improve reproductive health for African women?

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And it all started on ecademy

I can't remember when or how I connect with Gerd but before long we were talking baskets the ones that house dogs to be exact. Gerd is a Vet based in Naarden in The Netherlands. He had been thinking about adding hand made baskets for cats and dogs, as well as dog collars as part of his offering in his practice when I turned up. I didn't have these at Ethnic Supplies but as luck would have it I was on my way out to Rwanda so I was confident that I could help. The dog collars arrived, and although the women had done a great job , they were not suitable for what Gerd had in mind. The samples were free but being a generous soul Gerd donated £50 to the charity LTHT . This is still on drawing board. I got to Rwanda and presented the idea to the KIAKA co-op. They got to work and before I knew it the Rwanda government had sent me two large boxes containing samples of the baskets. I was faced with a new dilemma how was I going to get the baskets to the Netherlands? I called Gerd and told him about the baskets, next thing I knew I had the tallest Dutch men I had ever seen were standing in my living room one Saturday afternoon:-)  Gerd and his friend  had come to collect the baskets! Gerd was so impressed with the women's work that he has since placed an order for 40 of these baskets he has also become interested in the idea of helping African women help themselves out of poverty through trade and not AID What started as a random connection as far as I could see has produced some amazing results, I have gained a new friend both for the women I work with as well as for myself, a new customer as well as a whole new market that I previously had no access to. That almost sounds too god to be true but then that really is the value of networking you just never know where it will lead you!